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WHY SINGLING AND DIVORCE IN INDIA

What are the reasons for SINGLING 


Hello! all welcome back 

We are back again with a great thing called SINGLING everyone wants a healthy,understanding and a good romantic relationship.. and every relationship would also start by these promises only, but within in matter of time in a year or couple of years those relationships are breaking up WHY? 

Here we discuss 


Well in my opinion 


  1. Social media is a prime catalys in the murder of relationships. You get to track the movement and activities of your bf/gf closely and come to know what they are doing. There is no privacy anymore. And because of this, petty sqabbles arise. “Why did you like her pic? You can spend so much time with your friends so why not with me? Your friend is a jerk. Look at his profile. You shouldnt hang around him” and so on and so forth it goes. This develops cracks in the trust factor and suspicion sneeks in 

  1. I feel the “Online Status” and “Last seen at” “message read” is the biggest villian that destroys relationships. “You are online from such a long time why couldnt you chat with me? You have kept my message at “Seen” Couldnt u get the time to reply, Who are you chatting with at this hour. I can see you online.” All this deepens the mistrust among the partners.
  2. Ease of communication. There is absolutely nothing a person can do without his movements traced. Social media, SMS, Whatsapp, phone call - Pretty cheap internet adds to the accessability factor. “Why couldnt you call me if you were busy?” I mean do you need to be 24*7 be in touch with ur bf/gf. Do you need to offer explanations to your whereabouts? Cant a girl or a guy have some “me time” without being questioned about it?

The irony is that as we make great strides in technology and as the ease of communication gets easier and better, our personal relationship take a nose dive.

We are all trapped into this vortek. Our innocent love gets corrupted by the shadow of suspicion that looms large over the relationship.

Add to this the “ego” factor: Trying to look good all the time, this constant struggle to be one-up over your peers, the need to show-off, the pressure to be having a gf/bf OR be considered a loser. All adds to the relationship ultimate demise.

Even if the partners wade through the pitfalls, its a sheer effort to keep maintaining it.

Yes there are people who do have loving relationships despite all this. I am not sure they are keeping up appearances.

But I choose to believe that such people do exist. Love does thrive in hearts. Its an eternal gift and such people need to cherish this gift.

While the majority of us drown our sorrows in drinking, random meaningless sex and weed.

I believe we are a generation of “Sad people with happy pictures.”


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  1. VennelaDecember 13, 2023 at 4:14 PM

    I like the way u expressed about social media being a key point in making a relationship week. No wonder our ancient times have less diverse rate.

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